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Do you worry about tomorrow?

Do you worry about tomorrow?

Do you plan or not, prepare or not, sit back and only care about today, or not?  This question came to our minds after we received over 20 replies to a recent questionnaire we asked people to complete.  One purpose of the questionnaire was to try and gauge what a ‘typical’ person in their 60’s, 70’s or 80’s would identify as challenges they face now, challenges they think they will face in 5 years and what they would do to prepare for those identified challenges between now and then.  Sounds good, doesn’t it? The idea of asking these questions was to help Hope Trust identify activities, events or services we would need to develop to meet the needs of people as they mature.

Our challenge?  In reading the responses of all those people, virtually all of them wrote that they will ‘wait and see.’  No-one identified a plan to prepare for the challenges they themselves had identified.  No-one said ‘I’ll learn to cook’ no-one said ‘I will attend an exercise class so I stay fitter for longer’ no-one said ‘I know I will need to downsize my home in time so I am starting to plan that now.’  No-one said, my garden is too big so I’ll get a gardener.’ No-one said ‘I will assess my driving’ no-one said ‘I need to learn how to use a computer.’ Not to say that those respondents won’t do everything we’ve mentioned, and more, but it clearly isn’t front and central to their thinking right now.

So, for now, Hope Trust remains ready and willing to help any older person in the town - recognising that we might have to be flexible to meet emerging need as and when it occurs.

Just how loud are you singing?

Just how loud are you singing?

In the shower, in front of a mirror, standing at a Karaoke machine most of us enjoy a good sing.  Some are confident chorus line singers – happy to belt it out, whilst others quietly let their contribution mingle with that of others.  However we like to sing, if you are anything like us, what, when and how we sing is affected by how we feel.  If all is well in our world we might be happy to sing a few lines and skip along the prom to the rhythm created by an imaginary band, if things are less good we might sing soft, sad lines that reflect exactly how we feel at that moment.

This thought of how and where we sing came to us as we read some words which created a mental image of a scared, huddled character standing far back from the edge of the stage, singing, but only just.  In reading those words our thought was, how do we get that person to move from the back of the stage closer to the front, to lift their voice so more people can hear them?  It resonated with us because; as a charity working with people aged 50+ we want older people to recognise their own worth and for society to remember the value of every older person.  Rather than older people placing a huge burden on society, numerous studies show that older people play a key economic role – to the tune of £40bn more to the economy than they receive in state pensions, welfare and health services.  This is set to grow in coming years so that by 2030 projections indicate that the net contribution of older people with be worth some £75bn!  Not just adding value to the economy of our country, an ICM poll for a WRVS study found that 65% of older people say they regularly help their elderly neighbours and they are the most likely of all adult age groups to do so.

So, if you are standing at the back of the stage of life, can we urge you to come forward and sing a bit louder?  You are worth hearing!

Failing to plan, is planning to fail - Alan Lakein

Failing to plan, is planning to fail - Alan Lakein

No-one sets out to fail, in fact quite the opposite, most of us do all that we can to make sure that we don’t!  Memories of past failures can haunt us even into older age and some may live with the consequences of those failures for years.  Another quote on the theme of planning that really caught our attention was ‘Planning is bringing the future into the present so that you can do something about it now.’

 

Here at Hope Trust we meet many people who find themselves in a place they didn’t expect to be.  The loss of a loved one, a change in health or mobility, family moving away (or falling out) all have an impact that has to be adapted to.  The joy of living in Felixstowe is that the town offers so much; things to do, people to meet, interests to be shared, lunches to be enjoyed – what is required is a first step, a willingness to have a go, a plan for the next stage of life - whatever that might look like - and that’s where Hope Trust can help.  Whether it’s signposting to activities that appeal, or to services that need to be engaged such as getting a cleaner or gardener, we can suggest some next steps.  We want to see older people in Felixstowe living the life they want to live, for as long as possible – not getting caught out by a failure to plan, but bringing the future into the present, to do something, anything, now.

 

To assist you Hope Trust offers a range of weekly and monthly activities, give us a call if you want to find out more.  Simple one to one cookery classes, weekend lunches, the 6-week Bereavement Support Group that started on 3rd April, befriending, the chance to play board games, attend an exercise class, receive a chatty letter, you name it, we’re either doing it or we are considering doing it.  Realising how important planning is, we are looking ahead so that when you need us we’ll be there, ready and willing to help when you get in touch.